Thursday, January 24, 2008

the only reason

i have this friend.. he told me the only reason for a couple to break up.

the only reason for a couple to break up, was not because u cannot stand for his or her emotion, was not because he or she lie to u...

the only reason for a couple to break up was one of them wanna end it..

if 2 person really love each other, there is no reason to end it..

others reason was jus an ECXCUSE..

Saturday, January 05, 2008

crying babe needs shoulder

lots of things happened recently. get criticize, get misunderstand by people. i do not voice it out doesn't mean i'm ok. i jus dunno how to react to all these.. jus pretend that i noe nothing..

when home alone, i do lots of thinking. i do not hope someone understand what happened, i jus hope somebody willing stand by me no matter what happened.

tears can't stop, at least not under my control. i wishing somebody with me now. i wanna lay on his/her shoulder n cry. it is so alone to cry alone. i dunno who is the somebody. the one supposed to be was living in his own world. and i'm alone.

wondering what should do tomorrow? not leaving too early because wanna spent sometime with him. yet, there's no place for me in his world. guess shall pack things n leave...

i'm so tired n afraid... i'm afraid..

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

女生

昨晚我接到我女性朋友的一通电话。她很伤心有很无奈。

事情的经过是这样的,有一天,她和她的朋友B去走街买衣服。B急着要买衣服,因为她有一个很重要的地方要去。她有两个选择,所以她就问我朋友意见。

其实我朋友也是喜欢1其中一件衣服,只是她没说,她也知道B喜欢同一件。当B问我朋友意见时,我朋友就叫她选另外一件,因为B喜欢的那件衣服虽然是适合她的size,可是穿起来还是很松宽,所以我朋友个人真的觉得另外一件比较适合B。

事后的一个星期,我朋友和她的妹妹再去同一间购物中心,她妹妹说我朋友和B喜欢的那件衣服很美,而且很适合我朋友。因为我朋友体形比较大,所以那件衣服看起来不会像之前那么松宽。

在她下定决心要买的时候,她曾经想过B会不会生气,可是她觉得B是一个明白事理的人,所以才决定买的。回来后她也有告诉B她买了那件衣服。B也装作没事。

直到昨晚我接到朋友的来电,她说B和其他人说我朋友是个心机很重的人,说她骗B说B买的那件适合B,过后我自己去买B喜欢的那件。还说之前人家说我朋友是心机重B都不信,直到现在,B明白说,原来我朋友的每一句话都是有目的。

我朋友以伤心的心情度过了2007的最后一天。如果B真的真心当我朋友是真朋友,真心相信她的话,为什么最后为了一件笨衣服而去说我朋友出卖她吗?她之前说相信我朋友的那些话不是在自打嘴巴吗?

这种情况都会发生在很多女生身上,有时可能为了一个包包,一双鞋子,或一件衣服而怀疑对方。其实如果你不相信她的话,你又为什么问她意见呢?如果你真的不开心因为她买了你的东西,应该找一个方式和她谈,而不是在背后讲她。朋友的定义,相信的定义难道就这么肤浅?